Anglo and Mexican sayings are often subtly different.
For starters, consider your pet cat. In Canada or the U.S., cats are considered to have nine lives; in Mexico, however, cats only have seven (siete) lives. Perhaps they used up two lives as kittens just getting to be old enough to be a cat? Or perhaps the difference reflects the differences in the human lifespans in the two cultures? The life expectancy of someone born in the U.S. is currently about 74.3 years for men and 79.9 years for women, compared with 68.5 years and 74.7 years respectively for people born in Mexico.
While on the subject of luck, it is not Friday the thirteenth that is considered an unlucky day in Mexico but Tuesday the thirteenth (martes trece). Perhaps that is just as well since it means that it can never simultaneously be unlucky in all three North American countries. Hence, on days when it is unlucky to do business in the U.S. and Canada, it will not be so in Mexico and vice versa.
In 2001, Mexicans had to survive three Tuesdays that fell on the thirteenth (February, March and November, whereas Anglos had to cope with two Fridays that fell on the thirteenth: April and July. In 2002, it was a better time to be in Mexico since there was only one martes trece in the calendar (in August), compared with two Fridays the thirteenth, in September and December. Perhaps readers know of other days of the week associated with the number 13 and considered unlucky elsewhere in the world?
Still on a calendric note, how about the first day of this month, variously known as April 1, April Fool’s Day or All Fool’s Day? Anyone playing minor pranks on someone on this day in Mexico is likely to be met with blank stares, or looks of shock or horror, depending on the prank. The Mexican equivalent comes much later in the year, on December 28, Day of the Holy Innocents ( Día de los Santos Inocentes). This is when Mexican children will borrow, but not repay, small loans from unsuspecting friends and relatives that they consider a soft touch. Once they’ve received the loan, they say either the following verse (quoted in Frances Toor, A Treasury of Mexican Folkways, 1947) or something similar:
Que te dejaste engañar
Sabiendo que en este día
Nada se debe prestar.
Innocent little dove
You have let yourself be fooled
Knowing that on this day
You should lend nothing
So, be careful on December 28 if anyone admires your prized possessions!
Now, you probably want to know how these subtle differences came into being.
Well, I’ve no idea and I’d like to know too! But it is precisely these subtle differences in beliefs that help make Mexico such an interesting place. Remember, though, that these small, and apparently insignificant differences in everyday life are only the tip of the iceberg. Anyone intending to do business in Mexico or thinking of moving there from another country should be aware that many aspects of Mexican culture and life are very different to Canada and the U.S. – not better, not worse, just different!
This article is the basis for Chapter 30 in the author’s Mexican Kaleidoscope: myths, mysteries and mystique (Sombrero Books, 2016).