
wendy devlin
Apr 14, 2003, 10:00 AM
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Re: [gpk] May not be just a matter of 'adjustment'.
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Gpk: I concurr with the advice that Alex has offered to your inquiry...and wish to add something to it. Both he and I share similiar information based on experience about how 'business' is often done in Mexico. Your comment "My Mexican friends all just say “Things work differently here” and that I should just calm down. Do you agree with them or me? " For starters... I agree with you... both. From your posting, I detect a sense of confusion and/or betrayal with recent events concerning your property. And...Like Alex, I am wondering if your real estate friend's 'alliance' with the tenants is stronger than his 'friendship' with you. For in my experience, if you possessed his RESPECT in this friendship, he would not be dealing with you in this manner. In Mexico, it is my perception that people are generally very savvy with taking the 'measure' of each person. Afterall economic survival is based upon this ability. If your 'friend' is dealing with you like this, it is likely because of his prior assessment of you as a person... that he can. And Alex says, "If that is so then what happens from here depends on the realtor's and the tennants' perception of your ability to afford a lawyer or two." And should you seek legal help... it is entirely possible that your friend's alliance may be 'strong' with local abogados and other local authority figures. If necessary try to seek independent counsel. You may be in the 'right' but proving this, might be costly in both personal and economic terms. Meanwhile... you can continue to'work' on resolving the issues with your 'friend'...whether a show of sweetness or strength at this time, might depend upon the dynamics of your relationship prior to recent events. And immediately taking self-defense measures ...like suspending the phone service. You may be aware that it is not uncommon for tenants also to leave large outstanding electrical bills that will result in electricity to your property being cut...until the bill is paid. I would also say... that you are not experiencing anything 'out of the ordinary'...in fact... in my experience, such events are so common that one must exerise great caution in entering any real estate transactions...and even many rental situations. It is an often stated observance in Mexico, that it is relatively easy to rent a property...it is often near impossible to evict a tenant. Also from a tenant's point of view, it is OFTEN impossible to continue renting a property IF a landlord wishes you to leave. Accustomed as you might be to laws existing to protect the 'rights' of land/tenant relationships...in other countries, in Mexico, you may find that such laws even if they are on the books, will not necessarily be enforced. It may make the price of 'adjustment' more than you are willing to pay. Please keep us posted...and wishing you... a favorable outcome. Wendy
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