
PeggyS
Jun 23, 2003, 1:14 AM
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Re: [Bill_N] Paths to Mexico for Retirement
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Bill, there's also the fact that the health care here in Mexico and the nursing homes are outstanding. Many of you young retirees also have an aged parent you're taking care of, as is the case with more than a few of my friends here in Ajijic. In my case, I had spent so much time traveling in Mexico that it was like a second home. When my late husband, who had been diagnosed with Alzheimers at age 44, became more than I could handle as sole caretaker, I looked for a nursing home. Whether it was the northern U.S. or southern, it was a locked, barred facility, with the patient drugged to the point of being a zombie. A military hospital/retirement home was being built in Florida and they kindly put his name near the top of the list. I asked what kind of room he would have, and they said he would be in the mental ward, Alzheimers wing, totally locked and barred. I asked how often he would be out in the sunshine and they were horrified that he would be let outside. I told them that I wouldn't put a dog in a place like that. We had visited Ajijic/Chapala often while he was well enough to travel, with me checking out nursing homes. I decided on a lovely place on five acres of beautiful grounds in Chapala, where he had his own room and bath, wonderful compassionate nursing care 24/7, gardeners who doubled as male nurses when needed, really terrific food enjoyed by guests as well, and doctors who were able to prescribe the correct medicine to take away the violence that this normally gentle man had shown in the Florida institutions. Even when he no longer recognized any of us, you could see that he enjoyed sitting with his friends out in the sunshine or under the trees, or being spoken to by name by one of the other guests. Incidently, he was the only dementia patient at the time, most of the others were simply retired in a place with great food and care. Climate: absolutely, how wonderful for those simply in a nursing home to be in the warmth and sunshine here. Cost of living: a third, perhaps, of what it would cost in the U.S., for the incomparable care here. When we have to think of others as well as ourselves when we retire, there is no comparison.
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