
TomG
Jun 20, 2004, 9:04 PM
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Re: [Marlene] truth, justice, and the Mexican way
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A Mexican rental contract can be quite lengthy and remarkably devoid of reference to landlord responsibilities. I'd being willing to pay a bit of a premium to be on "word of mouth" rather than to not be carefully prepared for roasting by a contact in Mexico. Word of mouth has you damn near on an equal footing, minus your deposit. I wouldn’t pay 5 centavos on the peso for a basket of bulk rental deposit futures from Mexican rental contacts. One good way to see what they are actually worth would be to buy and bundle large lot and attempt to sell them on the Bolsa: see what the big shots think they are worth. "Screw the gringo" is a cultural fragment that appears even in popular songs, and filters down to the most idyllic pueblos out behind nowhere. F1's little 5-year-old sister innocently whispered me a few bars one time in youthful trust. There is actually some patriotism attached to the concept; and those who treat a gringo fairly can, in certain circles, be called to task for being traitors (Malinche). In some souls these characteristics are so deep as to have metaphysical profundity. Don't get me wrong, it's not just gringos who can be screwed. But when the affected party is another Mexican a very different mental mechanism is employed. It can be worse in magnitude; but it is an entirely different class of action. All the meanings of this concept go far beyond what outsiders are ever capable of comprehending. One of Mexico's greatest writers wrote a whole book on just the meaning of this verb in Mexico. As R2 says, "You are too trusting, I know my people." M2 says the same thing. F1 said it before they did, then R1 tried to explain with helpful examples and demonstrations. C3 says, "Be careful." On the other hand just dream about what a plague of baby boomer gringos would descend on Mexico if truthful articles were being written in major American and Canadian newspapers documenting the reliability of Mexican rental agreements. Then, waxing on with a litany of facts about the fairness of financial and legal treatments experienced by foreigners personally, in addition to observations foreigners made about the fairness of dealing that Mexicans conducted among themselves. Of course, people can and do write such things now, it is just that they are not broadly believed due to something more damaging than the Hollywood bad movie image: the constant trickle of returning tourists with one and two concrete tales of corruption and unfair experience. You can't stop it, it just keeps happening. All this is nothing compared to what illegal immigrants experience being plucked by their own handlers on there way out of Mexico. A reputation for bad dealings helps keep meek and mild folks from thinking Mexico is a good place to visit or live. Some would say that is all for the better. There are meek people in Mexico, too. I have been close to some wonderful people in there, people I like to think I would go to the wall with. That is what makes me so mad! Who is so crass that they wouldn’t forge a legal system with enforcement that would protect them from harm? And why do I feel so dumb saying nice things about meek people? I am amazed at how little trust Mexicans have living in Mexico; and in how devotedly they love Mexico. I would guard that idea more carefully if I didn’t think that the paradox was locked safely inside itself.
(This post was edited by TomG on Jun 20, 2004, 9:08 PM)
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