
Carol Schmidt

Feb 14, 2004, 1:10 PM
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DeMenthe also wrote Mexican Ethics and Etiquette, which was a supplementary textbook for one of my Spanish language classes. DeMenthe started out writing books for US business travelers who needed to know how to adjust US business practices to various Asian cultures, and he believes that Mexican culture is much closer to Asian culture than to European culture with which we are more familiar. He credits that influence to the original explorers who crosses the Bering Straits from Asia and settled throughout the US west coast and Latin America, including Mexico, becoming the Indians thousands of years ago. The concepts of saving face, of it being far more important to protect the image of yourself, your family and friends than anything else, is also found in Asian cultures. The hidden personality versus the self-effacing, agreeable one you present is a part of this, he believes. This trait was reinforced by the enslavement enforced by the Spaniards who made it clear that if you told the truth and accepted responsibility for anything you would be killed, and so it was better to be agreeable and not recognize your personal responsibility for anything that goes wrong. And so today, reinforced by thousands of years of innate culture and reinforced cultural responses, a Mexican might give you false directions rather than admit he or she doesn't know, and the entire language is full of wording that denies responsibility: the shelf just fell down, not, I overloaded it, I had anything to do with it, God willed it. God makes good weather, bad weather just happens. I'm simplifying and distorting in my memory, of course, but DeMenthe's theories are worth reading. Some think they are racist, and maybe in some interpretations they could be seen that way. And of course any theory is a generalization that does not allow for the many exceptions. But the books are worth reading anyway. Carol Schmidt
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