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jend91479

Dec 19, 2012, 1:19 PM

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Hello,
I would like to find someone who lives in Oaxaca. He is the father of my son. I would like for my son to be able to write letters to him. He is 10 now and has been asking about him lately. Does anybody know how I could get in touch with him?
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-Jen



chicois8

Dec 19, 2012, 4:10 PM

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would he have a name? a city,town,pueblo? or maybe address a letter to all deadbeat trolls !!!


tonyburton


Dec 19, 2012, 4:30 PM

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If the person is a foreign (non-Mexican) national, one starting point would be that country's embassy in Mexico City or consulate in Oaxaca (if the country has one). Though not all foreign nationals register with their embassy, many do (in case of emergencies etc).
If the person is a Mexican national, it's likely to be a tougher task without either you traveling to Oaxaca or appointing/hiring someone as your facilitator/agent who is based there.
Maybe others have additional ideas?


sfmacaws


Dec 19, 2012, 6:06 PM

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If you know the name of the town he is from or lives in, perhaps you could write to the priest (in spanish) and see if he will assist you.


Jonna - Mérida, Yucatán




jend91479

Dec 19, 2012, 6:28 PM

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Thank you for the suggestions. His name is Edy Lopez Gutierrez and he lived in Oaxaca 10 years ago. I haven't heard from him since then. I don't want anything from him, I just want his son to be able to reach him.


JuanCha

Dec 20, 2012, 6:01 AM

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If you know ANYTHING about his parents or family OR, better yet, the village or barrio where he might have been born then you might be able to trace his relatives via the neighborhood Catholic Church (as mentioned by a previous poster).

As an amateur genealogist, I've found the Catholic Church baptism records to be almost always excellent and complete. A baptismal record often lists grandparents (and sometimes the grandparents place of birth) on both sides and witnesses (testigos) who are usually family or friends. Many genealogical records are becoming searchable via Internet, and Mexico has been careful about physically archiving and preserving the original records.

Once you know more family members and their locations, then the search becomes a bit easier, but probably requires that one eventually go (or send someone) to those locations and begin asking around. Families are not very inclined to give any personal information via phone, email or mail. Your son's father may not have told hardly anyone about your son, so any inquiries might encounter resistance.

I hope for your son's sake and your own, that you are successful and find the father. I commend you for attempting this.
JuanCha de: Santa Fe NM, San Cristobal de Las Casas Chiapas, San Diego CA

(This post was edited by JuanCha on Dec 20, 2012, 6:12 AM)


sfmacaws


Dec 20, 2012, 11:45 AM

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Good suggestions, chances are if you find out where his family lives the priest will know his mother. You may make a grandmother very, very happy.


Jonna - Mérida, Yucatán




Anonimo

Dec 22, 2012, 11:26 AM

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Have you tried Facebook?

"En Boca Cerrada No Entran Moscas."

Saludos,
Anonimo
 
 
 
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