
esperanza
Aug 14, 2003, 11:42 AM
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Re: [jennifer rose] Why Ajijic and Lake Chapala?
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I first heard of Ajijic and the Lake Chapala area more than 20 years ago, when I was initially living in Mexico~in Tijuana, a completely different part of Mexico. I couldn't understand why I would want to live at Lakeside and sneered at the idea for years. What would be the point of living where there are so many foreigners if what I wanted was to live in Mexico? After I returned to the States due to medical necessity, I pined to live again in the beauty that I had come to know, in Tijuana (yes, beauty in Tijuana) as well as in the interior. For years I lived in the States and visited numerous friends in the numerous places in the interior of Mexico as often as possible, sometimes several times a year. For years I said I would *never* live at Lakeside. I now understand this attitude as contempt prior to investigation. When the time came to research where to live in Mexico, my companion and I drove 6,000 miles, from Ciudad Juárez to Oaxaca, from Tampico to Mazatlán. We saw many, many beautiful towns...none of which suited her needs. And then we traveled to Ajijic by accident. Leaving Morelia late one afternoon for Guadalajara, my companion and I were stuck in traffic on the highway into Tonalá. Dusk was pushing us, the traffic was pushing us, and we had no idea where in Guadalajara we were heading. I saw the sign for the turnoff to Chapala. "Let's go down there and stay the night; it's a small town and we can regroup tomorrow and go to Guadalajara during the day." Five days later we reluctantly dragged ourselves out of the Hotel Nido in Chapala and left for home. We never saw Guadalajara that trip. The rest is history. My companion (a native Spanish-speaker) fell in love with Ajijic, and I realized that the only criterion for my dream of living in Mexico had been to live in Mexico~I never specified WHERE or that I did not want to live near Lake Chapala. So I compromised. She went back to the States after two years; it turned out that she wasn't as in love with life here as she had thought she'd be. I stay on, for wonderful friends and neighbors and a house I love and a settled way of life. But there are still times when I consider where I might rather live: Pátzcuaro and Zacatecas are numbers one and two on my short list. Neither of those places has a foreign community of any size; fortunately I am fluent in Spanish and don't have a tremendous need to use English. However, having good friends with similar cultural references is handy when the conversation turns to Leave it to Beaver, or burning leaves in the Fall, or life in the United States during the late 1960s. There are times when I get sick and tired of the foreign community at Lakeside, with all its infighting and snarling about this and that, with its all-too-frequent racism and prejudice directed at the Mexicans, with its misconceptions and misunderstandings and general lack of interest in the culture it lives in. There are times when I am ready to call the movers. But as I have said a zillion times, no place is perfect. So Ajijic is home. http://www.mexicocooks.typepad.com
(This post was edited by esperanza on Aug 14, 2003, 11:45 AM)
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