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DISH2000

Feb 27, 2003, 10:18 PM

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Banning non residents from their ¨ full time job¨of comments!!!

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Hello Fellow Lakesiders & others living in Mexico.

I find it quite irritating to see other peoples comments on this chat site, giving advise to other non residents and they do not even live here. I agree that the people asking or commenting about living at lakeside/Mexico should have their saying, But....... there are a few people on this site giving their 2 cents about advise. It is like a full time job to them. Visiting lakeside/Mexico for 2 weeks does not make them experts, I myself, a 30 year plus resident STILL do not know everything about my adapted home.

I feel that the poor fellow in the suit should cut down on his comments. He should get a job or find himself a hobby, Like a girlfriend....

Thank you.

DISH2000



Uncle Donnie

Feb 28, 2003, 7:42 AM

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Hi Dish,

We all have our pet peeves and few besides myself are totally honest, physically beautiful and perfect, intelligent and witty beyond the scope of what could normally be expected as a result of the benefits of a wealthy and privileged upbringing, and worthy of being deferred to as the master of all knowledge and arbiter of what should be presented to the hoi polloi out there in computer land.

I definitely share your perception that many who post on these fora have no real clue about what your personal reality of Mexico is all about, but that may be one of the points of this entire enterprise. Someone who has been here at least as long as you have and is probably more fully integrated into the culture and society (I can't say for sure since you're basically anonymous and all we have to go on is the info you choose to pass on to us) read some of my impressions of life down here and told me that they were surprised that MY Mexico was so different from THEIR Mexico. Others with less time and experience in country have said nearly the same to me, and I to them.

That's a major point. Not everyone wants to come here to follow your plan, or mine, or anyone else's. And not everyone should be forced to live according to someone else's idea of what's acceptable. About the most we should require of others is that they obey the legal guidelines of whatever country they're in, cause no harm to others, not be a financial burden to the general populace, and decide how they individually choose to integrate into various aspects of their chosen community, or not.

I personally feel no obligation to come to Mexico as a missionary or social reformer, Big Daddy to the less affluent, or B'wana to the underclass. I didn't do it in Texas and I won't condescend to the folks down here. Many of us have our private and personal interests that involve helping certain groups or folks but those activities shouldn't be required of those who choose a differing path.

No, I don't agree with a lot of things I read on these fora, and in the past I've answered to "correct" a lot what I perceived to be misinformation, but as you should know we live in a country (actually WORLD) of shifting realities and what applies today in one place may or may not be totally invalid tomorrow or in another place.

I particularly disagree with some of the comments you make from time to time but I understand (or think I do) where some of your attitudes come from. There's a certain group who came to Mexico when it was cheap, uncrowded by foreigners, easily exploitable, and where they could live on savings or investments as either HUGE ducks in a very small pond or as unfettered rebellious adventurers surviving on a few hustled pesos and a bit of charm and guile. Nothing wrong with either as long as they don't come back years later with rosy fading memories of what wonders they performed for "the people" back before the invasion of the undesirables, and start bemoaning the demise of the "real" Mexico, totally denying the locals the benefits of societal and financial progress.

At any rate, if you'll follow things closely you'll see that a lot of "experts" post in cycles. They'll hit from the fringes for a few weeks and then be gone forever. It's a tribute to this site and to many of the participants, that enough information is printed here that many who have never visited the country can write descriptive passages and offer specific directions as though they had years of experience down here.

And I think you underestimate the majority of the participants here. You should notice that there are quite a few who correct erroneous postings. It's up to the individual to decide which version of a story they choose, but everyone is entitled to offer an opinion or a personal viewpoint. Like you, I still occasionally get enough and need to vent a bit, but I expect that the same applies to me; some believe what I have to say and agree with my conclusions, and some don't.

Wouldn't it be dull otherwise? I'll e-mail you offline when I get home next week and maybe we can get together over coffee or lunch somewhere and talk. I get more good info and make more friends that way! And lessen my chances of heart attack, stroke, and constipation. And the folks with whom I disagree are usually the most interesting and entertaing to talk with.

And the "poor fellow in the suit" evidently has found a hobby: posting on the fora!

Gotta go feed the cat.

UD

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http://www.headformexico.com


scott

Feb 28, 2003, 9:33 AM

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i believe i answered this one for you before-yes you can live comfortably on $1000/mth-more comfortably than in the excited states or canucklehead land.


I'd like to know how someone who has never lived in Mexico can make presumably authoratative statements on how much it costs to live here.

The guy with the suit might get quite a shock the first time he goes to call up TelMex and get his phone installed, etc.


zapata Bob

Feb 28, 2003, 10:04 PM

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Well stated Donnie! Making up for lost time in a hurry! Regarding Pedro and his smart ---, meaningless coments, perhaps David could start another forum, for those whose forte in life is just being a smart ---! I've followed this forum for several years, learned; it was interesting. Now quality's down, but if you're studying to be a wise --- like some of these folks, the forum could be a good source of case studies! Anyway, I thought Pedro had been offed earlier!


DISH2000

Mar 2, 2003, 8:19 AM

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Excellent response!!!

I agree with this about 100%. I thought this was Mexico Connect, Home areas, Ajijic/Lake Chapala, You are right about these ¨Know it all idiots¨who could not point out were Ajijic is on the map, Yet know very thing to know, more so than us who live here.

I just get disgusted with some of these comments from some of these people, I guess you are right again to move on the next comment. I will just have to ¨hold my nose¨and go on......hehehe

Thanks, DISH2000
 
 
 
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