
raferguson

Mar 18, 2008, 10:38 AM
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My spouse is far from fluent, and has been muddling through very well, as evidenced from our last trip to a place where very little English was spoken. She went shopping with some ladies who did not speak Spanish, and she acted as translator. I just let her do her own thing, and only came over to help if she asked. If you move to a place where little English is spoken, you should sign up for weekly classes, preferably with a tutor. This allows study and practice (in the markets) to work together. If your wife is having trouble in the markets, get the tutor to help her with that kind of dialog, until she has the usual stuff down pat. There are a few people who never seem to learn Spanish, more than at the most basic level, even after living many years in a place where little English is spoken. I am not sure how much of that is due to true incapability, vs. lack of effort. I remember talking to a British expatriate who had lived in Mexico 20 years. When I asked her if she spoke Spanish she said "only kitchen spanish, I am afraid". I met someone on this last trip who had lived in Catemaco for 7 years, who spoke very little, perhaps due to a hearing problem. I remember reading about a educational consultant telling a group of teachers that every student can learn. A teacher stood up and told him, "You don't understand, some students just can't learn German". His reply was "Well, its a good thing that they weren't born in Germany." Not sure how much age has to do with it, other than that children under about 8 years old can learn languages very easily, without an accent. Those who learn languages later tend to have an accent, and actually use a different part of their brain to speak the new language, vs their native tongue. I do see sometimes that the elderly, often the over 80 crowd, seem to have lost their ability to learn anything new, let alone a new language. But I think that a 60 something person who is still mentally sharp should be able to learn a new language. You can get by with very little Spanish, but of course the more you speak, the more convenient life is, and the more you can join the local community. Richard http://www.fergusonsculpture.com
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