Jun 16, 2009, 5:04 PM
Post #19 of 23
This thread is titled "Loving Mexico"........... I have attached an upbeat Mexico story from Linda Ellerbee's column......it's a couple weeks old, but I don't recall reading it here on M/C. Sorry if this is a duplicate. It's nice to hear some "positive" words from the media types.
Linda Ellerbeeís Mexico: Itís Much Better Than You Think
Posted on May 21, 2009
Linda Ellerbee is a journalist who is better known for several jobs at NBC News, including Washington (DC) correspondent, host of the Nickelodeon networkís Nick News, and reporter and co-anchor of NBC News Overnight, which was recognized by the jurors of the duPont Columbia Awards as ďpossibly the best written and most intelligent news program ever.Ē Sheís also a cancer survivor, a foodie, and an all-around inspiration to many women. Oh, and did we mention she loves Mexico? Read on for a first-class, first-person view of life in Mexico from a way cool gringaís point of view, recently published online in the Banderas News. Enjoy!
Mexico: One Journalistís View
By Linda Ellerbee
Sometimes Iíve been called a maverick because I donít always agree with my colleagues, but then, only dead fish swim with the stream all the time. The stream here is Mexico.
You would have to be living on another planet to avoid hearing how dangerous Mexico has become, and, yes, itís true drug wars have escalated violence in Mexico, causing collateral damage, a phrase I hate. Collateral damage is a cheap way of saying that innocent people, some of them tourists, have been robbed, hurt or killed.
But thatís not the whole story. Neither is this.
This is my story.
Iím a journalist who lives in New York City, but has spent considerable time in Mexico, specifically Puerto Vallarta, for the last four years. Iím in Vallarta now. And despite what Iím getting from the U.S. media, the 24-hour news networks in particular, I feel as safe here as I do at home in New York, possibly safer.
I walk the streets of my Vallarta neighborhood alone day or night. And I donít live in a gated community, or any other All-Gringo neighborhood. I live in Mexico. Among Mexicans. I go where I want (which does not happen to include bars where prostitution and drugs are the basic products), and take no more precautions than I would at home in New York; which is to say I donít wave money around, I donít act the Ugly American, I do keep my eyes open, Iím aware of my surroundings, and I try not to behave like a fool.
Iíve not always been successful at that last one. One evening a friend left the house I was renting in Vallarta at that time, and, unbeknownst to me, did not slam the automatically-locking door on her way out. Sure enough, less than an hour later a stranger did come into my house. A burglar? Robber? Kidnapper? Killer? Drug lord?
No, it was a local police officer, the ďbeat copĒ for our neighborhood, who, on seeing my unlatched door, entered to make sure everything (including me) was okay. He insisted on walking with me around the house, opening closets, looking behind doors and, yes, even under beds, to be certain no one else had wandered in, and that nothing was missing. He was polite, smart and kind, but before he left, he lectured me on having not checked to see that my friend had locked the door behind her. In other words, he told me to use my common sense.
Do bad things happen here? Of course they do. Bad things happen everywhere, but the murder rate here is much lower than, say, New Orleans, and if there are bars on many of the ground floor windows of houses here, well, the same is true where I live, in Greenwich Village, which is considered a swell neighborhood ó house prices start at about $4 million (including the bars on the ground floor windows.)
There are good reasons thousands of people from the United States are moving to Mexico every month, and itís not just the lower cost of living, a hefty tax break and less snow to shovel. Mexico is a beautiful country, a special place.
The climate varies, but is plentifully mild, the culture is ancient and revered, the young are loved unconditionally, the old are respected, and I have yet to hear anyone mention Britney Spears, Lindsay Lohan, or Madonnaís attempt to adopt a second African child, even though, with such a late start, she cannot possibly begin to keep up with Angelina Jolie.
And then there are the people. Generalization is risky, butó in general ó Mexicans are warm, friendly, generous and welcoming. If you smile at them, they smile back. If you greet a passing stranger on the street, they greet you back. If you try to speak even a little Spanish, they tend to treat you as though you were fluent. Or at least not an idiot.
I have had taxi drivers track me down after leaving my wallet or cell phone in their cab. I have had someone run out of a store to catch me because I have overpaid by twenty cents. I have been introduced to and come to love a people who celebrate a day dedicated to the dead as a recognition of the cycles of birth and death and birth ó and the 15th birthday of a girl, an important rite in becoming a woman ó with the same joy.
Too much of the noise youíre hearing about how dangerous it is to come to Mexico is just that ó noise. But the media love noise, and too many journalists currently making it donít live here. Some have never even been here. They just like to be photographed at night, standing near a spotlighted border crossing, pointing across the line to some imaginary country from hell. It looks good on TV.
Another thing. The U.S. media tend to lump all of Mexico into one big bad bowl. Talking about drug violence in Mexico without naming a state or city where this is taking place is rather like looking at the horror of Katrina and saying, ďDamn. Did you know the U.S. is under water?Ē or reporting on the shootings at Columbine or the bombing of the Federal building in Oklahoma City by saying that kids all over the U.S. are shooting their classmates and all the grownups are blowing up buildings. The recent rise in violence in Mexico has mostly occurred in a few states, and especially along the border. It is real, but it does not describe an entire country.
It would be nice if we could put whatís going on in Mexico in perspective, geographically and emotionally. It would be nice if we could remember that, as has been noted more than once, these drug wars wouldnít be going on if people in the United States didnít want the drugs, or if other people in the United States werenít selling Mexican drug lords the guns.
Most of all, it would be nice if more people in the United States actually came to this part of America (Mexico is also America, you will recall) to see for themselves what a fine place Mexico really is, and how good a vacation (or a life) here can be.
So come on down and get to know your southern neighbors. I think youíll like it here.
Especially the people.
"NOT ALL WHO WANDER ARE LOST...."
(This post was edited by cristalhombre on Jun 16, 2009, 5:19 PM)