
moonfam5
Jan 13, 2007, 8:06 AM
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Re: [dlyman6500] Nogales to Lakeside Update
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Sometimes, the tales of the big house in San dimas, etc... are just that, tales. I know of many people who have immigrated NOB who live in small apartments with three or four others and are up to their necks in debt (hey just living the American Dream!). Yes, they own big SUVs or sports cars (I've even seen a Ferrari with New York plates running through the streets of Cotija), but for the most part it is just an illusion (or drug money). I know of kids that come into the US with the intention of helping their families back home and the first thing they do when they get a job is to start doing the ear piercings, tattoos, buying the "cool" cell phones, etc... WHY? Because they have recieved a taste of something they have never had in their lives, and they don't know how to control it. On the other hand, I know of families who have come into US and have worked their butts off in order to have a better house or better living conditions and to help out the families that stayed behind. Perhaps it is in the FAMILY that immigrates together that the values that they want to hold on to stay with the families for a lot longer that if one or two come up by themselves.
The more I learn, I less I know.
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